About this book
A candid, courageous memoir that explores love, loss, migration, and what it means to build a life across cultures and continents.
Written in a dual voice that weaves personal testimony with academic insight, this is an unflinching account of a life lived on the margins of multiple worlds — and the courage it takes to step into the light. Dr Ajibade’s debut memoir is at once deeply personal and universally resonant.
From poverty in Nigeria to purpose in the United Kingdom, and through everything that marriage taught him along the way, this book is an honest reckoning with love, identity, resilience, and what it means to choose yourself.
